Releasing the Ties that Bind: Judgment
I was in a that man done did me wrong state, and I do mean state. The women in life urged restraint for my sake. “Throttle back, Deb before you say something you’ll regret.” That advice came too late to do me any real good. I was mad and that made me right. And I’m a woman, double right. Isn't that how we think? Come on, be honest. If you’re a woman don’t you secretly think you have the inside track on relationships and emotions? Because that’s how it works right, if you are a member of the select group you’re right and everyone else is wrong. A friend and neighbor who embodies the soul of calm wisdom suggested a walk through the woods as a balm for my wound too tight mind. We caught up on our lives and the news in the neighborhood then she gently suggested that my unhappiness was not the result of anything anyone said because that was done and did. My unhappiness was the result of the judgment I was knotted up in. I came to an abru...